OTWO
I think the biggest hold the tower has is family...what a tough nut to crack....We love and bond as family....May You be blessed with strength and lead with a torch.
LW
i am not trying to minimize the pain and difficulties of leaving the scam (being fortunate never to have belonged to it, in the first place), but i would like to ask people a question.
have you thought that, if you leave, your friends and family have someone out there who really understands them and could be there for you?.
on the one hand, your family and friends will shun you, that's for sure.
OTWO
I think the biggest hold the tower has is family...what a tough nut to crack....We love and bond as family....May You be blessed with strength and lead with a torch.
LW
i am not trying to minimize the pain and difficulties of leaving the scam (being fortunate never to have belonged to it, in the first place), but i would like to ask people a question.
have you thought that, if you leave, your friends and family have someone out there who really understands them and could be there for you?.
on the one hand, your family and friends will shun you, that's for sure.
Sweetcheezits has a thread going right now, we were just discussing this, jump on over and have a look around? We are discussing such, it is a good thread.
LW
i am not trying to minimize the pain and difficulties of leaving the scam (being fortunate never to have belonged to it, in the first place), but i would like to ask people a question.
have you thought that, if you leave, your friends and family have someone out there who really understands them and could be there for you?.
on the one hand, your family and friends will shun you, that's for sure.
I very much do. Perhaps because that has been my path, and I want it to count for something. Yes, I think it is trailblazing to leave and let the others follow out with some support and an example...
LW
it has been a year since i stopped attending meetings with the jehovah's witnesses.
as one year anniversary has passed, i thought it would be helpful to highlight some of the main events during this transition.
it may help others that are going through the same experience.
What an amazing post. Congrats to You and Yours. I think this thread should go in the "Hall Of Fame". I am crying tears of joy for You all!
LW
PS
I am one of those "saw it, fixed it, deal with it " types too... I am so glad You had quick resolution and absolution.
LW
can changing religions make you sick?
just heard this on tv.
i can't find anything on it on yahoo.. i was just thinking this would be a wonderful excuse the jw's will use to get people to stay/come back.
I think so...Mind You, I also respect a difference between spirituality and religion. To me, spirituality is a journey and is personal. I am never hurt by spiritual growth or change.
Religion is to my mind dominated. I will not be dominated.... It would hurt me and make me sick to be dominated by religion. Does that make sense?
LW
these moments are something that not eveyone has experianced, but if you have they are with you every day.
a true moment of clarity is not something you live once.
you live it every time you think of it.
Thank You E for this post. Wow.. I had to think on it for a minute, isn't that sad? What I have is this.... I was in a LONG Long long....dwindling relationship.
I didn't even know who I was. I had no life....I had a moment of clarity while sitting under the stars one night... That it was MY TURN. That time was wasting and it was finally MY TURN!!! I had never been selfish, was always somebody elses somebody (if that makes any sense). It was another abuse against me and I just had had enough. I took control of my life at that moment, and I remember it well.
Thanks again for asking, that rocks.
LW
the watchtower ?
december 1, 2010 page 5,6 says:.
the ultimate personification of evil, satan stands in bitter opposition to jehovah, who personifies love.. .
The gawd of the watchtower loves everyone very very much, and only hates (oh and he does indeed hate)
gays
women
thinkers
smokers
lovers
folks who are overjoyed each year about the blessed birth of any children (or your own)
educated people really annoy
opiniated people
ones who would try to make a difference in the lives of the living such as, gulp, voting
penis kissers
muffin muzzlers
children
Feel free to add to the list...
My best to You Lady, Get well soon!
Outlaw made me pee me britches (again)
LW
apart from a member of the gb of course.... i've personly seen a brother gesturing so much he sent the mic stand flying!.
another who opened his mouth to speak and burped loudly into the mic instead!.
any others?.
Children being forced by parents (who were pressured by elders) to perform like marionettes on stage. Then being "graded" on the performance and told there oh indeed would be a next time. I have been one of the wierd ones, and witnessed lots of weird ones. Children running off stage to vomit, chapped bloody lips, stage fright, panic disorders.....Weird that parents would let their children be subjected to scrutiny in that awful way.....
LW
i composed this as a sort of therapy, it expresses some of the feelings i have in looking back over my former life, thought i would share.. a is for armageddon.
in which we though wed die.
if we didnt believe in.
Very well done!
I think it is amusing, disturbing, and thought provoking. This is really, really good. My guess is that this will spread like wildfire, give it authorship if you can.
Congratulations on your fine art, and thanks so much for sharing!
LW